Such a tough decision to be made. It must have been so hard for you and your family.
I am fortunately not in the position where I have to make those decisions as a clinician, but your post reminded me that one might be confronted with this in one’s personal life too. I would imagine that I will struggle a lot with any of those decisions, but particularly with deciding to stop feeding, as feeding is such a basic need and urge, and one would not want to see a person starving, even when their ability or motivation to eat has subsided.